This Rookie Mistake Scares Top Agents Away (Fix Your Recruiting Strategy Today)

Let me tell you the number one mistake rookie recruiters make when they're first released into the field. They've just been given the job of becoming a recruiter, and they think, “Okay, I better get out there and start making things happen.”

So they go to a REALTOR event—could be an MLS meeting, a board meeting, maybe a training or education event—and they jump into full-on “mayor mode.” They’re shaking hands, kissing babies, acting like the VP, president, or CEO. They’re working the room.

And then they make the classic rookie error:

They start trying to recruit in public.

Professional, high-level recruiters never recruit in public. Ever.

We build relationships in public. But we always recruit in private.

Why? Because if you’re seen recruiting openly at a public event, people will run from you. They’ll think, “I need to get away from this person before anyone sees me talking to them.”

Nobody wants to be seen as the agent who’s being recruited, and you don’t want to be the recruiter who’s doing it out in the open.

If that’s been you—stop.

Instead, apply this simple principle: build relationships first. Use the FORD technique. Ask about their Family, Occupation (before real estate), what they do for Recreation, and their Dreams and goals. No recruiting talk. Nothing about switching companies. Keep it casual, warm, and authentic.

Then, circle back later. Privately.

Send a short note, a friendly text, or make a quick phone call:

“Hey, it was great meeting you the other day. If you’re open to it, I’d love to grab a coffee or lunch sometime and share what we’re doing at our company.”

That’s it. And we’ve got tons of natural, low-pressure scripts just like that—ones that work, feel authentic, and most importantly, are done in private.

If you want more ideas on recruiting—what works, what doesn’t, the best strategies, scripts, emails, and texts—we’ve got some incredible programs over at eRealEstateCoach.

I encourage you to book a Discovery Call with me here.  

We’ll talk about your company and what you’re looking to achieve over the next 12 months. No sales pitch—just a real conversation.

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+ 32 Years of Real Estate Sales, Management, and Coaching Experience
+ Top 1% REALTOR Himself (he has been in the trenches)
+ Opened his First Real Estate Company at 23
+ Grew his Real Estate Company to 17 Offices (largest in Oregon)
+ His Current Team Closed $1.4 Billion in Sales in One Year
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